Have you ever had a moment where life stopped you in your tracks and whispered, “This is it. It’s time”?
For me, that moment came like a thunderbolt — the day my mom passed away suddenly from a heart attack at the age of 73.
She was vibrant. A loving, kind, compassionate soul. My dearest friend, filled with wisdom and dreams of her own.
And just like that… she was gone.
In the days and weeks that followed, grief washed over me like waves. But beneath the sorrow was something deeper, something louder — a calling.
It was the realization that our time on earth is limited. That tomorrow is never promised. That the dreams placed on our hearts aren’t there by accident — they are whispers from the Divine, meant to be followed now, not someday.
In trying to make sense of it all, I found the book, Infinite Possibilities by Mike Dooley.
Or maybe it found me.
Dooley’s words have been like oxygen to my soul. He writes, “Thoughts become things. Choose the good ones.”
He reminds us that we are not passive observers in life — we are powerful creators. Dream-weavers. Possibility-makers.
And what we dare to envision, we are equally capable of achieving — if only we’ll believe.
Reading it was like having a conversation with the version of myself that had always known this truth deep down. The version who had put dreams on the back burner while life kept calling for responsibility, duty, and practicality. But after losing my mom, I couldn’t ignore the urgency any longer.
I began to ask:
What dream have I buried under the “somedays”?
What story have I been waiting to write, speak, live?
What legacy do I want to leave behind?
And so, I started to say yes — to bold ideas, divine nudges, and scary, beautiful leaps.
I stepped fully into my calling as a storyteller, coach, and difference maker.
I started writing books for children that spark compassion and courage.
I began helping other purpose-driven leaders share their stories with impact and authenticity.
I no longer waited for “the right time.” I made the time.
Because this is the art of living your dreams: It’s knowing that dreams don’t come with expiration dates, but we do. It’s choosing to act, even when the path isn’t clear. It’s trusting that the universe rearranges itself around the boldness of a dream pursued.
My mom’s passing broke my heart wide open — but in that open space, light rushed in.
A deeper truth. A deeper purpose. And an unwavering commitment to not just dream, but to live those dreams out loud.
If you’re reading this and you’ve been waiting — for the perfect time, the perfect plan, the perfect courage — let this be your moment.
Your wake-up call. Your invitation.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to believe that it’s possible.
As Mike Dooley says, “Your dreams are not here to tease you. They are here to show you what’s possible for you.”
So go ahead. Dream wildly. Live boldly. And write your masterpiece — one inspired word at a time.
The start of a new year is the perfect time to reflect on your story.
What story do you tell about yourself, your business, or your cause? Is it clear? Is it compelling? Does it truly represent your mission and vision for the year ahead?
How do we unlock the power of a new year? I recommend doing that by stepping outside your comfort zone. You can choose to launch yourself into a new reality by working on your inner story first. Each day, I recommend taking early morning time to do some spiritual practice — meditate, visualize, journal…
To boost your inner strength, I’ve made a commitment to serve more difference makers this year. I’m planning to start a “Storytelling for Nonprofits” group coaching group in the next few weeks. It will serve as a guide and mastermind group to raise awareness, support and money. If that’s something you’re interested in, let me know.
For the next 30 days, I’m also launching a “Story Tips” challenge. Want to join me? It’s free. I’ll be sharing a quick 1-2 minute video tip on building your business through stories. You can choose to share a tip from your business, and then post it in the Facebook group too.
Authentic storytelling is not just something that comes from Artificial Intelligence. It comes from your heart and soul. It’s true to just YOU. Of course, artificial intelligences is terrific as an assistant and springboard for your work. But people also want to hear your inner stories.
And only YOU know all your stories and the lessons you learned from them.. waiting to be explored and shared with others.
To begin, I’d like to share one of my earliest memories that reinforced my joy of storytelling.
I’ve been immersed in the world of storytelling for as long as I can remember. My parents read stories to me constantly, and visiting the Chicago public library was always a treat. I loved writing poetry because it was a fast way to capture a moment, a feeling, an idea. Since I didn’t have paper handy most of the time, I’d scribble poems on paper napkins. When I was about 7 years old, I eventually got a small notebook, which became my poetry journal.
One of my early poems was called, “The Wonderball,” and I was so proud of it! My dad thought it was so good that it made me feel like a million dollars. It was a fantasy poem about seeing into the future with a magician’s ball. Now, many years later, I still love sharing stories in both my personal and business life.
Your Next Step for 2025?
Consider the story behind your “why.” Why do you do what YOU do?
Take time this January to revisit and refine your “why.”
It’s the foundation of a powerful story, and it will guide your goals for the year ahead.
As the year winds down, it’s the perfect time to pause and reflect on how far you’ve come.
What worked in 2024? What could have been better?
This was our year of traveling across the country — from Illinois to California — to be in a place where my husband Joel always wanted to live. He had always dreamed of living in California, and now we’re renting a home and “trying it out…” We’ve had ups and downs, but I don’t regret one minute.
It has been wonderful to experience a new place… and venture forth into a dream.
You deserve to take steps toward achieving your dreams too.
Take time during this holiday week to assess your journey. Doing that not only honors your efforts but also shines a light on the path ahead.
As you envision a bright 2025, remember — grow your business with your stories.
Your stories are uniquely yours. They set you apart in a world full of choices.
Sharing your story authentically can connect you to your ideal audience, build trust, and inspire action.
Here are my tips as you reflect on the past and step forward into 2025.
Celebrate Wins and Lessons Learned:Take stock of your biggest achievements and challenges in 2024. What stories shaped your year?
Whether you overcame obstacles or achieved milestones, these experiences are the foundation of your brand’s narrative.
Identify Your Audience’s Needs:Consider your ideal audience.
What resonated with them this year? Were there untold parts of your story that could better align with their values or inspire them?
Set Story-Driven Goals: For 2025, plan ways to weave storytelling into your strategy.
Create content that highlights your mission, showcases client transformations, and emphasizes the difference your business makes.
Amplify Your Reach: Use storytelling across platforms.
Write a blog, host video interviews, or engage on social media to share authentic, relatable moments that connect with your audience.
I have some surprises coming up for you in the new year ahead… so stay tuned!
Until then… Have a happy, healthy holiday season…. and know this — I BELIEVE IN YOU!
NOTE: Years ago, I got to hear the late poet and civil rights activist Maya Angelou speak at an event. What a “WOW” experience! Her personal stories were riveting. The crowd hung on every word. You could hear a pin drop.
Did you know that Maya Angelou stopped speaking at age eight? She had been molested by her mother’s boyfriend. When Maya spoke up in court, that boyfriend went to prison. He was killed shortly after his release. Maya thought her voice had killed him, and she became afraid to speak. It took almost five years to eventually heal. Maya shared her story in the book, I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings. Ultimately, her voice became one of the most important voices in American literature.
Maya said, “There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.”
As you take time now to reflect and embrace your story, you’re setting the stage for your own future growth. I’m happy to serve as your guide.
Let 2025 be the year when you bring YOUR story to life!
As we take the time to reflect on being grateful, I invite you to pause and reflect on being thankful for what you have.
The people you love. The trees and animals surrounding you. The food on your table. Whatever brings you joy.
As a gift to you, I’d like to share the meaningful wisdom of my late friend, Roland Takaoka, who passed away on August 23, 2018 from a fourth stroke.
Our friendship happened instantly — through the computer. Roland contacted me after he happened to watch my interview with a disabled speaker. Our first conversation must have been about two hours. We enjoyed immediate chemistry! I found an amazing soul, and even though he lived in California and I was in Illinois, we knew we’d be in touch all the time.
Roland became my technical wizard, the “Wingman” for my online interviews” and my website designer. He did so much for so many. In fact, he led three of his own online programs to educate, inspire and uplift others.
Roland was ALWAYS smiling! Always positive. No one would know that he sat in a wheelchair, totally paralyzed on his right side.
When he happened to share his manuscript about his experiences in the hospital and rehab institute, I saved it on my computer. I never thought to ask him about publishing it. I figured he’d just do it on his own. But he never did. His stories of transformation after his third stroke were so compelling.
I was completely shocked when I got the news of his fourth stroke. This time, he was in serious condition. His wife called me, and I immediately starting contacting his friends and followers online. I said, “Let’s do a Get Well Roland program!” Using Google Hangouts on Air (no longer around), I knew we could get about six people on the screen at the same time.
I wanted everyone to say positive thoughts and prayers towards him. If we all do that, I thought… perhaps we can help him heal. But this time — it didn’t happen.
He passed away three days later. I was devastated. How could that happen? Roland had promised me that we’d stick together. How could I honor his spirit?
I KNEW i had to publish his story. It wasn’t even a question. His book contained so much humor, joy and fun… along with his story of transformation after that third stroke.
So I embarked on raising funds to cover the costs. So many people helped support this project. “Roland’s Story: Inspired By A Stroke” is his beautiful memoir, with a forward from me and the closing from an interview with Roland’s wife, Barbara.
Even though time has passed since I created the crowdfunding video, this 4-minute piece truly captures Roland’s spirit. In gratitude to his forever friendship, I’d like to share it with you… along with his special message of, “You can make anything happen.” (Taken from a longer interview that we did together…)
To experience more of Roland’s uplifting energy, here’s our interview:
Last but not least, if you’d like to get Roland’s special memoir, go to Amazon: https://bit.ly/RolandsLink
If you’ve already read his book, and can post a review, I’d be most grateful. Here’s to each of you… with Roland’s message: “EXPAND IN JOY!”
With love & gratitude,
Lynn Sanders
P.S. For those who’d like to learn more about growing your business through your stories, you can schedule a complimentary strategy chat at: https://calendly.com/LynnSanders
For the month of December, I’ll be offering rates of 50% off in story consulting. Learn more about my services at: https://DifferenceMakersMedia.com
Every morning (well, almost every morning), I consciously choose to start my day with six spiritual practices that set the tone for a GREAT day.
These practices are referred to with the acronym of SAVERS. They continue making a difference for my inner state and how I approach life. And I’m not the only one. These guidelines were developed through the wisdom of Hal Elrod, internationally best-selling author, speaker, and founder of The Miracle Morning. Hal faced two different near death experiences, and the SAVERS kept him going strong on the inside.
The SAVERS represent::
Silence
Affirmations
Visualization
Exercise
Reading
Scribing
It’s incredible how much clarity and inspiration can emerge when we dedicate time to nurture our mindset. The SAVERS awaken me to making the most of each day, because I become more conscious of my values.
Often, we’re focused on the gaps in our lives—what we haven’t achieved, what didn’t go as planned. Those negative thoughts can easily take over, but the truth is… they don’t have to. When we know our values, and live in alignment with those values, then we can feel good about ourselves. Even when things don’t go as planned, we can turn to a positive affirmation… and shift our thinking into a positive state.
For instance, last week, I was facing technical issues a day before my book launch party. My new zoom subscription suddenly required a password, and no one had been told of that password. Meanwhile, several people were having difficulty in locating the zoom link on my Eventbrite page. My anxiety level started rising. In my mind, all kinds of negative thoughts were popping up.
But then — like sun breaking through the clouds, something good happened. Unexpected clarity and encouragement. And from an unexpected source…. my mom’s spirit on the Other Side. Yes, I know that may sound strange to some of you, but to me, it was a blessing.
You see, I awoke on the morning of the book launch with a forgotten poem that my mother used to post in our kitchen. I hadn’t thought of in decades, and yet it was suddenly in the forefront of my mind. While I didn’t remember every word, I did recall enough of the lines to do a quick Google search and find this classic poem by Walter Wintle.
Its words were exactly what I needed to hear. They reminded me that we create our own reality with our thoughts, and I was determined to make that book launch a positive and memorable experience. Written at the turn of the century, this message is forever relevant…
If you think you are beaten, you are.
If you think you dare not, you don’t.
If you’d like to win but think you can’t,
It’s almost certain you won’t.
If you think you’ll lose, you’ve lost.
For out in the world, we find,
Success begins with a fellow’s will—
It’s all in the state of mind.
If you think you’re outclassed, you are.
You’ve got to think high to rise.
You’ve got to be sure of yourself before
You can ever win a prize.
Life’s battles don’t always go
To the stronger or faster man,
But soon or late, the one who wins
Is the one WHO THINKS HE CAN!
This poem gave me the boost I needed that day.
Our thoughts shape our destiny. And we get to choose those thoughts.
Sure enough, the book launch party was a success. It all began with one powerful thought: “I think I CAN!” For a peek at our festive gahtering, filled with uplifting, compelling stories, you can visit: https://bit.ly/BookPartyVideo
For those who’d like to empower youth, check out my new best-seller on Amazon: Adventures In Ecuador: Diary of a Volunteer.https://bit.ly/AdventuresBook
Here’s to your success,
Lynn
P.S. Get the 7 Keys To Build Your Business WIth Your Story at:
When we hear around us — from the media, family, friends, even our inner talk, what do we choose to believe? Who do you listen to? Our minds, body and spirit are connected. We get affected by the energy of thoughs, words and actions.
So — who do you listen to? What words are you choosing? Can you allows yourself to think differently?:
From personal experience, I witnessed the power of energy healing after my mom’s passing. I went from barely being able to walk with terrible back pain to feeling good. I learned about a little book that can change your life perspective.
Dr. Masuro Emoto, world famous scientist and NY Times bestseller of the book, “The Hidden Messages Within Water” scientifically proved with droplets of water that…
Energy generated by positive or negative words can actually change the physical structure of an object. Positive thoughts directed at droplets of water were examined under a special microscope. The results were beautiful, crystalline shapes. The droplets that had experienced negative emotion — anger, worry, sadness — came out looking pock-marked and ugly.
This book has the potential to change your view of the world… and everything you say or do.
In the book, Words Can Change Your Brain, the message is: “A single word has the power to influence the expression of genes that regulate physical and emotional stress”.
So how conscious are we about the words we say to ourselves?
We can start by simply noticing the words we think… and the words from others.
We GET TO CHOOSE those words. Let me share a short story about the power of words.
We’re packing right now for a move from one rental home to another, a temporary stay because we don’t know where we want to eventually settle. I recently heard some negative feedback about our decision to be “undecided” about our future home.
We’re choosing between staying in Illinois or moving somewhere in Califorania. And we decided to let the Universe show us the right place. If we don’t find an ideal home in Illinois while we’re here, we’ll try out a new place in California – perhaps Sacramento or San Diego.
A well-meaning friend just questioned me — “Why would you pick California?”
“It’s not easy to move to another state at your age…”
“I couldn’t bear being in your situation…”
My conscious mind chose to shut off those negative thoughts. I found myself replying — “I’m looking at this like an adventure.. Besides, we can always move back if we decide it’s not right.”
Please be aware of the ocean of words around you.
You never know how your POSITIVE words create a wonderful ripple effect. . . making a different and do good in the world.
My GREAT news is — my new children’s book, “ADVENTURES IN ECUADOR: DIARY OF A VOLUNTEER” will be officially published and launched as an ebook on March 28th.
It will be FREE! This is a best-seller strategy. GIve it away at first. Become a best-seller. And then upload a new cover with the “best-seller” emblem on the front cover. Would you be willing to get your free copy on that day? I hope so.
