by Lynn Sanders | Oct 1, 2022 | DMM Blog
Let’s explore how to live at our Highest potential.
As we speak, pause and listen to the words we choose.
As we interact, let’s empathize with the one who is before us.
As we go about our day, consider what you can do to let someone know they matter,
At this time of the Jewish new year, Rosh Hashanah, I feel very contemplative.
While the seasons change, I too am aware of the fragile nature of life cycles.
Our tradition shows us that between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement, we’re guided to reflect more deeply on our own behavior.
In every community, there are those who are hungry.
We may have senior family members who are alone and would love a phone call.
We may know a neighbor or colleague who needs support.
Please be aware that any outreach that you do can go a long way in keeping someone healthy, happy and even alive.
My Congregation Hakafa distributes empty grocery bags, and we bring them filled with nonperishable food on Yom Kippur, to give to the local food pantry.
Our food drive provides one of the biggest donations in the year.
That gesture motivated my husband to give regularly to that food pantry.
What can you do?
One of our congregants spoke about adopting two children from South Korea.
How meaningful it was — even while facing prejudice and discrimination as the children grew up. We may know of children or adults who need help.
What can you do?
Last weekend, as I walked into the local Jewel to buy food for our family’s holiday dinner, I noticed a young man sitting near the front door, with a backpack, looking forlorn.
First, I just waved at him, passing him by. He didn’t ask for money.
He just sat there… probably waiting for someone to offer him something.
No one did.
I remembered I needed to go back to my car to return an item. I walked past this same young man again, and felt a twinge of guilt.
Something made me pause and go up to him.
Impulsively, I said, “Hi! Would you like something to eat?”
He looked up at me, startled at my question.
“Sure,” he answered with a grin.
“Do you want a sandwich or chicken?”
“Chicken would be great,” he replied.
“Fried or roasted?” I asked again. By now, I felt like we were friends.
“Roasted,” he replied with an even bigger smile.
I nodded at him. “Fine. I’ll get it for you…” I paused, realizing I hadn’t even asked him a more important question. “What’s your name?”
“Robert,” he said.
“Okay Robert, it’ll just be a few minutes,” I told him.
I admit — I’ve never done anything like that before.
I got his food first before doing my shopping.
Jewel was selling sliced watermelon pieces in a cup for a dollar, so I added that to the “family size” chicken package, I wanted him to have leftovers.
The clerk packaged eight pieces of chicken with two sides of cole slaw, french fries and four dinner rolls. It all fit together in a nice bag.
You would have loved seeing Robert’s face when I handed him the bag.
He was so grateful. It wasn’t such a major investment — about $15 — to give someone a gift of food and to let him know that someone cares.
Our life is the journey of our experiences.
We don’t get to choose every experience that happens in our lives.
Yet we DO get to choose our outlook. That outlook becomes the story of our life.
Let me wish you a Happy New Year — in whatever religion or non-religion you choose.
As my wonderful Rabbi Bruce says, “The most important thing to remember is — listen to one another.”
I believe we have much more in common than our outer differences.
We’re all here for a reason.
Listen and recognize that we all make a difference.
Here’s to your success.
by Lynn Sanders | Sep 21, 2022 | DMM Blog
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P.S. One Extra Tip — Start each day with time for do self-care — meditation, exercise, positive affirmations…
It will keep you recharged for the entire day.
Lynn Sanders
by Lynn Sanders | Sep 12, 2022 | DMM Blog
We all need time for rest. Would you agree?
I’d like to share insights after our much-needed 5-day getaway in northern Michigan last week. I got to visit one of my favorite places: Interlochen Center for the Arts.
Simply walking around this sacred land rejuvenated me. (Not to mention meeting two marvelous staff.) This is a place promoting world friendship. Bringing youth together from around the world, through both a camp and high school academy. Inspiring everyone to pursue their passion in the arts, learn from top leaders, and go after their dreams.
Here’s what I’d recommend to recharge your batteries:
1. Get away regularly. (Step away from your computer. Be near a place that makes you feel good.)
2. Tune into nature. Take quiet time to walk among the trees, stroll by a beach, gaze at a sunset, watch the birds.
3. Be open to smiling at strangers and talking to them. (You’ll feel good!)
4. Sleep later than usual. Or get up earlier to watch the sun rise.
5. Watch a uplifting movie – just for the fun of it. We just saw “The Lost City” with Sandra Bullock, Channing Tatum and Brad Pitt. It’s a wonderful, funny adventure film.
After returning back to a whirlwind at my office, I’m more aware of the importance of keeping a calm perspective. Life has ups and downs. Yet, we don’t have to be continually on this emotional roller-coaster.
In my next post, I’ll be sharing tips to staying calm and productive while being surrounded with multiple distractions.
Till then — keep on smiling!
And Preeti, remember: you DO make a difference.
All the best,
Lynn
P.S. For those who want to learn more about this amazing place, check out: https://interlochen.org.
Lynn Sanders
by Lynn Sanders | Sep 2, 2022 | DMM Blog
Did you ever meet someone who leaves a lasting impression forever?
You might meet briefly or know someone over many years. Yet, that heart-to-heart connection is felt deeply. And you never forget.
Zig Ziglar was one of those people. While I only spoke with him once in person, I heard him speak on stage several times. He was one of the most riveting speakers I’ve ever heard. He shared deep insights with a humorous drawl. Using his personal stories to emphasize the lessons learned, he captivated a crowd.
While Zig is no longer alive, his best-selling books, tapes and videos are still available, and his messages live on. He was one of the world’s most popular motivational speakers. Over his 40-year-long career, he also wrote over 30 best-selling books on leadership personal growth, faith, selling, family and success. He influenced millions of people, including U.S. Presidents and other world leaders. He spoke from his heart with wit and integrity.
Let me share a story about the last time I heard him speak. It was 2009, and I was attending a Get Motivated seminar in the suburbs of Chicago.
Filing into the stadium, I noticed a HUGE auditorium, filled to capacity with multiple levels and rows of people… at least 1,000 or more. On the roster were a number of prominent speakers, who I’ve forgetten. Except for Zig and his son, Tom.
I’ll never forget what I heard, saw and felt that afternoon.
Unlike any other presentation, this one was very different because of Zig’s physical condition. In late March 2007, Zig’s life instantly changed. He had fallen down a long flight of stairs in his home, seriously injured his head, and was unable to do the simplest things.
But his inner programming on thinking positively and his many friends kept his spirit strong. He even wrote a book, “Embrace The Struggle” about his story.
I was holding my breath as I watched him slowly mount the stairs to the stage, holding onto the railing, with his son closely at his side. They both sat down on chairs, and Tom explained their new presentation style.
“Even though dad sustained a serious head injury,” said Tom, “he still wants to keep speaking. My dad says it’s not over till it’s over. We’re going to do this presentation as an interview because my dad has some memory loss.” Zig was a man who was willing to be vulnerable, and you could hear a pin drop as Tom and Zig spoke.
Afterwards, Tom showed video clips, a montage of Zig’s past talks. I think most people knew this would probably be the last time they’d ever hear the great Zig Ziglar in person. I felt moved to tears by their loving interview. Zig was so courageous to face the fear of forgetting his stories, and yet willing to give his insights to the best of his ability.
Zig loved every moment on stage. And we as a unified crowd of fans loved him back. He wasn’t embarrassed if he forgot something because Tom was there to support him. What an inspiring example of love, kindness and leadership!
Here are three unforgettable tips by Zig:
1. “You will get all you want in life if you help enough people get what they want.”
2. “Make your car into a university. Spend the time in your car listening to tapes and learning.”
3. “People say that motivation doesn’t last. Neither does bathing. That’s why we recommend it daily.”
Nobody wanted the presentation to end. When Tom and Zig concluded, the audience rose in unison to give him a standing ovation. We were clapping for Zig’s spirit. His unstoppable attitude. His faith and determination.
It was an historic occasion.
As Zig would say at the end…
“If you do this, and by you, yes I mean you, I will see you at the top.”
What a legendary leader. Now — it’s your turn…
Step into your greatness!
Here’s to YOUR success,
Lynn
by Lynn Sanders | Aug 18, 2022 | DMM Blog
Want a shortcut to success?
In any activity we undertake, someone has already gone before us, learned something, persevered and achieved success.I once watched a speaker who demonstrated how many people run their businesses. He allowed himself to walk into a wall.
(He gently hit his head on that wall!)
“That’s what most people do,” he said, rubbing his head. He turned away and started towards the nearby door.
“Most people are trying to figure out everything on their own, and it takes too long. The simplest way to succeed is…”
He then opened the door.
“Follow someone who has gone before us. Learn from their actions… and then you can easily find your way to success.”
Here are five time-tested shortcut tips:
1. Hire or outsource some of your work. You’ll free up your time to concentrate on what’s most enjoyable and profitable for you.
2. Leverage your time by repurposing your content. A short video can be transcribed into an article. It can also posted as audio on social media. You’ve now got three pieces of content instead of just one!
3. Connect and learn from successful leaders. Freely promote their work. Become a “go-giver.” Give first. You’ll achieve results more quickly and authentically.
Those two words — “go-giver” were coined together and have become a recognized phrase worldwide by two special people, co-authors Bob Burg and John David Mann. Google those words, and you’ll discover a series of ‘can’t put down,’ internationally best-selling books that reveal important leadership secrets.
4. Invest your time wisely. Time is your most precious commodity.
5. Set goals and establish your priorities.
It’s never too late to become the next success story!
I believe in you! 🙂
To your success,
Lynn
P.S. On August 23rd, Aaron Avila will be interviewing me on Stroke TV Media, to honor the passing of our mutual, dear friend Roland Takaoka, who passed away from a 4th stroke. (I’ll share the link with you when it’s ready.)
After a third stroke paralyzed his entire right side, Roland had a clear vision of how to live his life. His motto was, “Expand In Joy!”
I highly recommend reading his memoir, which I published posthumously.
“Roland’s Story: Inspired By A Stroke, A Memoir of Hope, Healing & Transformation can be found at: https://bit.ly/Amazon-Roland
I encourage you all — create, write and speak your inspiring stories while you’re still on earth. The world needs to hear from you!
